Cancer Dark Side Astrology

mostly cancer men are liars.

so true....they are jerks of the highest order!!

yes they r...when its not hurtin anyone...

THEY ARE LIARS AND WILL TELL U ANYTHING U WANT TO HEAR

is it really true that"they are liars and will say whateer you wanna hear?"

A cancer man is always a gentleman, until the woman he is with stops being a lady.

I'm a cancer male lover and I never cheated or lied in the realms of love and romance even though I'm moody and got a hot-temper I really do love my girlfriend with all honesty...I love myself too...!

omg! i found out what all of our politicians are! ;D

cancer men are great emotional manipulators! Lies! Sneaky!

im in love with a cancer man... hes very quiet, smart, handsome, rude when talking to other girls(but hes very nice when i talk to him), Shy, and playful like a child hehehe... after school the generously asks me if he i will allow him to carry my heavy bag.. he like every thing i do... when someone fights me hes always there to save me like hes my night in shining armor! i love him so much he said he LOVEs me but i wonder if he means it? i caught him flirting with my best friend! >:(

I agree, in my experience with Cancer men, they just tell you want you want to hear to get what they want out of you. Is there an honest Cancer out there?

I agree, in my experience with Cancer men, they just tell you want you want to hear to get what they want out of you. Is there an honest Cancer out there?

I agree, in my experience with Cancer men, they just tell you want you want to hear to get what they want out of you. Is there an honest Cancer out there?

just broke up w/one. he lied about everything, cheated, money hungry, needy... I could go on and on!!!

they are not liars,they just want to make you happy.

honestly it's not that they are liars they're just manipulative they do things secretly sometimes... for example when it comes to love if you'll hurt them they'll try to fine someone special to save them from tears but they still love you and cared for you...that's their personality so better never hurt them...

I'm a cancer woman and I don't lie nor cheat. I'm very honest and I expect the same out of my spouse. Cancer men and women find it very hard to trust people but if we do trust you, don't lie to us... its then, that we feel betrayed, that we will in turn lie to you and hurt you. It's a way of shielding our own hurt feelings as we are highly sensitive and emotional.

You think getting burned by a Cancer man is bad?? Try getting burned by a Scorpion Man... It's 10X worse and 20X more painful!!!

I'm a cancer myself and I'm young(17). And I think that cancers start out so pure but once they're hurt by a past relationship they tend to fall off of there pure ways and lose sight of who they really are and who they can be to someone. ***ADVICE***DONT BREAK A CANCERS HEART AND YOU WONT RUIN THAT PERSON!!!

The scariest thing? They say Cancer men are compatible with Taurus women. I was never in a relationship with one (Thank God). But I have heard every horror story imaginable from all my friends who have dated them. Taurus women are emotionally and physically strong, not to mention , a very money-oriented sign. Why would we want to date self-loathing, codependent, cry-baby, mama's boys??? Eeeew!

I am a Taurus and I prefer Aquarius men.

I would have to disagree...I don't think Cancer men are liars I think they are very upfront and honest. If you believe a Cancer male is lying to because you think he is only telling you what you want to hear, thats your belief. Cancer men are very private and tend to keep to themselves. So if they're only "telling you what you want to hear" dig deeper, they just haven't told you everything...

I would have to disagree...I don't think Cancer men are liars I think they are very upfront and honest. If you believe a Cancer male is lying to because you think he is only telling you what you want to hear, thats your belief. Cancer men are very private and tend to keep to themselves. So if they're only "telling you what you want to hear" dig deeper, they just haven't told you everything...

im a cancerian lady who is in love with a cancerian man.. some people say its a good match caz we understands each other... but thru my experience, we dont get along soo well... he basically negelect me as i need attentions and security.. he dont call unless if he needs me.. he dont sms to ask how im doing even when i told him that im sick and needs his care..
they are just bz with work work work~!
sometimes i feel that im just his comfort pillow...he only calls when he needs some1...
im just too sad as i really put loads of effort to make the relation work...
maybe its time to leave

honestly some of its true. We are self loathers. Im only 17. I have learned the one thing most dont learn to later in life. what a cancer needs to do is find one special person and hold on to them. And not your spouse. We are emotional becuase we are the first sign of water. We get the emotional tide and the moon doesnt really help out a cancer. manipulative yea... we do it for not just our benifet we do it for at least another. In love cancer will be your truest lover he will not lie to your face. all cancers have a nervous twitch when they do and most of them know it too. And also yea... never hurt a cancer. We do not take revenge. in another words we will show you a quick sympathetic view. Every sign has its negatives. Believe it our not We actually care about every one else. Compassion is in our nature

I have read this article. I am still concerned about our relationship though. I am a Taurus woman, I am currently in a relationship (for 15 months now) with a Cancer man. Example: he told me I am his future wife, the mother of his children, and now that I followed him to live and work with him, he has told me that he only said those things so I would not get distracted by another man, he now says that he no longer chooses me as his life partner and that he just wants to be in a casual relationship with me. He has said that he is loyal to me, but I am not convinced, as he has also told me that he looks at other women and imagines himself having sex with them. He says he was faithful to me while we were apart (we were in a long distance relationship for a few months during our 15 month relationship), but he told me he lied when he said to me that he stayed home alot, instead, he now says that he actually went out alot. He hates spending money, even on meals we share together. He did buy me flowers and a pair of diamond earings in the first few months of our relationship, we went out for plenty meals etc, but now he says he is saving towards buying 30 houses (he has 5 houses already) and building a bank balance for his future and that he will no longer buy me any gifts, he wants me to pay for myself when we go out and he accepts my money too, he angrily told me that I am the most expensive girlfriend he has ever had, yet I do my utmost best to ensure the basic meals I eat are all under $10, I no longer suggest things we can go out and do, unless they cost nothing, eg: going to the beach instead of going to the movies, etc. He has told me that if I do get pregnant by him, I have to promise I will have an abortion. He is very kind to his family and friends, he talks to them about all sorts of subjects, but even though I try to chat with him and I have told him that I am starving for some intelligent adult conversation, he doesnt chat with me or to me about too much at all, definately not about things of importance to him and we no longer have any conversations that have much substance. He was extremely sexual with me in the first few months of our glorious relationship, and now he says we can only have sex once a week and that he will never kiss my mouth again, only if he is drunk. I tell him when I need a bit of nurturance or some extra attention and support, mostly because I am here without any family or friends and I only have him in my 'space' right now, but instead, he rather gets drunk or starts huge ugly fights with me, then he blames me and refuses to acknowledge the reality of the situation and the fact that he starts and continues most of the fights between us. I think perhaps he is incapable of loving me. I do not understand why he has changed so dramatically. He blames me for every fight and all his harsh ugly words towards me. He does not see his role or take any responsibility for the demise of our relationship, yet, I am still 80% loving and kind towards him and I cater to his every need want and desire that I can possibly fulfil, I will tell the entire truth, and therefore I include the fact that during a few of our fights I have resorted to physically hitting him, and the once I even spat at him, I am not justifying myself, but I did not just launch at him, it was after plenty goading and taunting from him that I unfortunately was my worst self for a brief bit, needles to say, he is refusing to forgive me. Now a new thing is that he is suddenly obsessed with having a '3some', I refuse to participate. I am 37 years young and he is 30 years young. I am bewildered as I feel a bit insane, I am confused, I think it is because I am somehow still believing all his initial treatment of me, his phenomenal words and ways towards me, but, sadly, I think I have to face the reality of the person he has now become to me. I think we have reached the point of no return. I am beyond devastated. I believed that he was my final destination, that we would get married to each other and have children of our own and be a happy family, now and forever more, no matter what. I feel as though I am behaving in a desperate and pathetic manner. I am ashamed of myself. But, I am loathe to let go of his individual and personal potential and also all of the positive things his 'Cancer Sign' tells me about him too. We are miraculously still together, although he keeps threatening to leave me. I want him to remember me well, yet as each day goes by, this seems almost impossible. I dont want to accept that he might marry someone else and treat her well and not me. I WELCOME: Opinions... Insights... Advice...

I'm involved with a Cancer man now. After two years of seeing me in the same place (I had a boyfriend most of that time), he finally approaches me. He says I'm the first woman he has ever approached. I asked why? He says that he is very very shy and is trying to get out of it. He said I seemed unattainable and he just had to sneak up on me. He said I am the most intelligent woman he's met. So far, so good. We spend three days of the week with each other. We have fun. He is an introvert, semi geeky but beefy. I love him - not the serious type of love - the surface love. He sleeps and plays video games alot an needs time alone and I ablige. He has alot of career concerns and my career is set and I'm at the top so, I'm sympathetic.

That fits my husband to a tee. Very moody and loves to humiliating ppl..to make himself feel better. I pray he gets out of it soon..very soon. He just doesn't have any feelings...he's so cold!

To the last comment person you are going through the same thing that I am ....I love a cancermale and he claims to love me back..He is a really good person but he does the same thing to me just call me when he wants to ..I always tell him you can't just love me at your convience..That really hurts and it gives you a reason to think that they are cheating but they are known to be faithful when in love...So I just don't know I do wish that he would give me more attention because I love him so much and I belive he loves me to....The gap spaces when we aint talking just hurts so bad..I'll tell you what thing I don't know about the lying thing but I do know that you they will make you fall so deep in love with them....lol

Its true..im a cancer gal...and a lie and manipulate my partner....Im not proud of it but i hate to hurt anyone...I try to be honest at times but i find it doesnt work... This sounds horrible but takes an honest person to admit a lie

Its true..im a cancer gal...and a lie and manipulate my partner....Im not proud of it but i hate to hurt anyone...I try to be honest at times but i find it doesnt work... This sounds horrible but takes an honest person to admit a lie

So are they liars or not? I'm currently going out with a cancer man, i love him and all but I've caught him saying lies but he will keep saying that i don't believe in him and that i break his heart i mean that is so much BS but now i just let it go because he wont change -.- I just want to know if i can really trust him or not..

So are they liars or not? I'm currently going out with a cancer man, i love him and all but I've caught him saying lies but he will keep saying that i don't believe in him and that i break his heart i mean that is so much BS but now i just let it go because he wont change -.- I just want to know if i can really trust him or not..

So are they liars or not? I'm currently going out with a cancer man, i love him and all but I've caught him saying lies but he will keep saying that i don't believe in him and that i break his heart i mean that is so much BS but now i just let it go because he wont change -.- I just want to know if i can really trust him or not..

Wow!! Is all I can say. I met this Cancer man who swept me off my. He was my dream man then I started to see the sensitive side os him. I would offend him without even knowing it and unintentially. Now, 8 months later, all of a sudden I must have said or did somethin wrong cause I haven't heared from him in 3 weeks. Its hard to let him go tho. Will he come around??

Wow!! Is all I can say. I met this Cancer man who swept me off my. He was my dream man then I started to see the sensitive side os him. I would offend him without even knowing it and unintentially. Now, 8 months later, all of a sudden I must have said or did somethin wrong cause I haven't heared from him in 3 weeks. Its hard to let him go tho. Will he come around??

Cancer Love Compatibility.....
Best Match: 1. pisces 2.Scorpio
Moderate: 1. Taurus 2. Virgo
Worst: 1.Aries 2.capricorn
Positive Traits: Caring,Loving,Intuitive,Absolutely loyal when in love
Negative Traits: Extremely moody, occasionally rude(though will apologize later), may flirt with others just to make partner jealous.

These are normal cancerian traits.If someone here is lucky enough to get love a cancerian he/she is the luckiest person in the world.If someone has betrayed a cancerian beware 'cause they never forget and rarely forgives.
I'm a Cancerian. Many people here has badmouthed Cancerians. I don't blame them. I, too, believe cancerians are most difficult to handle zodiac and from my experiance(I'm an amature astologer) only Pisces(almost exclusively) and scorpios(sumtimes) are able to tame them.For those who blamed cancer to lie and hurt people.......BETRAYAL and INTENTIONALLY HURTING feelings of the people they love are the things the things they HATE the most.

Cancerian Men use others as bootycalls. That's Just the NAKED TRUTH!! ( Let's say most of them)The women are the ones that put a lot of effort in a relationship to make it work. But lying to a partner they really truly love is not in their diccionary.!

I prefer to stay away from cancers nowadays..

Im a cancer male ' and yea ima jerk. i like being rude and mean and just put weaker minded people on the spot for my amusement. But , by nature with the characteristics of my sign, i am polite , responsible, and a really nice guy. High ego' why not since everyone comes to cancers to vent and be heard. Just understand that a cancer males sense of humor is that of destructive criticism. If you think cancer males lie , think and realize that who doesn't? If we cancer males lie to you ' its for a reason , and mainly cuz we care about you, because you cant handle the truth, and thats funny , that a cancer male is smart. Cancer males are sweet gentlemen and good ppl and friends, just dont take advantage of our big hearts and you wont end up losing a cancer friend. Have a good day everyone.

Im a cancer male ' and yea ima jerk. i like being rude and mean and just put weaker minded people on the spot for my amusement. But , by nature with the characteristics of my sign, i am polite , responsible, and a really nice guy. High ego' why not since everyone comes to cancers to vent and be heard. Just understand that a cancer males sense of humor is that of destructive criticism. If you think cancer males lie , think and realize that who doesn't? If we cancer males lie to you ' its for a reason , and mainly cuz we care about you, because you cant handle the truth, and thats funny , that a cancer male is smart. Cancer males are sweet gentlemen and good ppl and friends, just dont take advantage of our big hearts and you wont end up losing a cancer friend. Have a good day everyone.

where should i eveen begin about cancer men,
Only speaking from experience:
-liars
-date many women at the same time
-they want you to be emotionally commited to them while they are free to hook up with other women
did i mention they lie alot?
-untrustworthy
-manipulative
-moody
-if he knows you like him alot, then forget about it ladies, it is downhill from there. just getting his attention will feel like pulling teeth. no woman with a high self esteem would want a man like that.
-they are mentally crazy, slightly psychotic/evil
-very insecure
-feminine. they act like girls, they like chick flicks
-they're known as a "ladies man" which can be a red flag for homosexuality
-poor impulse control
-don't like to use condoms
hates whores and unlady like women but secretly sleeps around with loose girls
--and the list doesn't end here....

Im in love with a cancer man and I am a cancer woman. He is nothing like the cancer sign. He is not compassionate, caring or nurturing. Instead he is a controlling, demanding liar. It's true, they say what you want to hear. They believe their own hype. He is so selfish as if the whole world revolves around him. If you can, dont fall in love with a cancer man!!!

just broke up with a cancer male - was so closed and arrogant with the biggest ego.....didnt want to try new things....
couldn't fully open up.... and was so insecure with himself and i guess that if someone doesn't love themselves...they can't really love someone else.

I disagree with cancers being liars they are actually very ohnest, very loving n will protect the ppl they care of like no other. True that they will tell u what u want to hear its not to hurt but to make u happy. They love to make people like them, true they have a needy side but it only comes out when they feel ur taking them for granted ur pushed away there all about giving love but the expect u to give them as much love as they give u. They do need u emotionally but not financially they do very well money wise there main goal is to keep a happy home an provide. Also yeah they have job positions like positions ,layers etc because they are extremely persuasive they also have many in medical field for there caring nature. If a cancer does lie he will say sorry n tell u the truth after. Don't hurt there trust cuz u may lose them for ever they won't hate you but will not show u any emotions towards u they just won't care. Sexuality is high and will please u in ways u will always remember. These are the reasons I disagree with many of these comments... Oh I also happen to be a Cancer

I'm a cancer girl and I must say it depends, I'm actually very sweet but when somebody hurts me I will never forget this, and it is possible for me to hold grudges for many years.
And yes we are manipulative but only if we want something, the thing is we can detect emotions very quickly and we use people weaknesses against them. I must say that cancer men are shy, and actually very romantic, but they don't let their true feelings show. I know this from experience because I'm in love with a cancer male myself, and I was too shy to tell him how I felt and neglected him, he got mad, I apologized he crawled back out of his shell but didn't really show his feelings so I crawled in my shell and neglected him again, than he got crabby, and we had a huge fight. Now it's weird between us, sometimes I want to apologize and say something to him, but then he ignores me or dances with other girls in front of me to get back at me. Or it's the other way around; I ignore him if he tries to catch my eyes. So all I want to say is be gentle with a cancer, and watch out for the mood swings.

Wow!! Haters much??? Sweet baby jesus!! I'm a Cancer and from all over the web I found out that Cancer's are the MOST sensitive, we are not liars! You all are, never us! We protect and love! We worry and we hurt! Unlike all of you, we actually think with our hearts! We think family is the MOST important thing, not like you selfish people! One thing though... you mess with a Cancer and you die! Cancers are the strongest of all water signs! We will create a whirpool and a waterspout and we will creat tsunamis to destory all of those who ever hurt us!! After all, we are the sensitive ones ^_^ Gemini is the liar for your information ;)

it is not worth it to stick with cancer man....no matter how many times i texy or call ... he ignores every single 1 of them...but when he needs something that is the only time i would hear from him...when we are together he is amazing but once he turns his back...he will disappear and you wont know when you hear from him again...it is tiring...

You people must be aquarius' -_-

Us cancer men are one of the most honest >_>

And this information is completely wrong :, may initially clash with a Cancer .... that is WRONG; Pisces is the best match for cancer ... Cancee and pisces are known as the "matches made from heaven"

So really, some inexperienced retard made this if you ask me .

I'm a cancer female, and do tell people what they want
to hear. Not out of nastiness but because I'm afraid to hurt anyones feelings. We dislike to be disliked, so to avoid this we learn to use the right words

Im a cancer, this is true, but.......ouch. lol

Wow. yall r some haters. lol Honestly? there are so many good qualities about cancers, just sayin all we do is lie?? yeash. thanks ever soo much. Maybe its because we tell the truth and yall just take it wrong and ASSUME were lying. We hate being lied to, thats for sure. makes us emotionally insecure. So y would we lie??? :P

What in the world??? Wow, this actually kinda hurts. Im a cancer and lying in my personal opinion is horrible. Why would i lie, being honest is so much better. I mean if i hate being lied to it would make me insecure, then why would i do it myself. I care about the feeling around me, why would i hurt anybody? doesnt make sense. :( :( :(

I do not agree with all cancers being liars, i am a cancer and the reason my relationships never work out is because im to truthfull to wemon and i think that upsets them because sometimes the truth isnt what they want to here and thats bullshit how can we be jerks when we are the most caring you just need to get a little deeper into your man and see what upsets him because we can be very sensative once we let you past our shell because our lovers mean so much to us its like our whole world

cancer men do suck! Moody as hell they will humiliate when they are feeling over powered or in there case not getting enough attention. so cold and its all about them!

Pure nonsense..

Well, I dated a cancer for 3 years and I feel like I never knew him! Lied, cheated, manipulated, needy and all kinds of things, but for some reason, they stick to you like a "CANCER" literally, you can't forget the good times with them! Eghhhhhh!

So true what they say about what a Cancer can become after being hurt!! I am a female cancer; never thought or could cheat even if i wanted to; but after been cheated on a long-term relationship i got so hurt and angry that i had to do it back. I left the person and kept the one I cheated with for a while, although i still cared for the guy who i was with before. But it's true, once he hurt me liked that he lost me doesn't matter how hard it was to leave him behind...

ahhaha dont knock us cancers we get it movin and protect our own other signs just cant handle the heat we bring

WHY IS EVERYONE HATING ON CANCER GENTLEMEN !
cancer is the WEALTHIEST SIGN ! for all u people saying taurus..?..theres a cancer website saying that we are the wealthiest... they are also known for having the most comedians...
these people can be caring sensitive emotional intelligent intuitive very romantic & on the dark side they can be evil and mad at the whole world... MOODD SWINGS
they always say that scorpios understand us and pisceans but i believe that only CANCER can understand CANCER to the fullest! we are very complex !
if u are not a water sign then obviously you DO NOT understand us so please dont judge.
i always get judged by the stubborn fixed signs like aquarius leos taurus & scorpios....it pisses me off because these people are tooooo stubborn....IF U FELL OFF A BIKE WHEN U WERE 3 YEARS OLD A FIXED SIGN WILL EXPECT U TO DO THE SAME THING WHEN YOURE 25 LOL LIKE WOWWW DUDE I am A GROWN MAN NOW LOL
cancer men will lie to u because they dont want to hurt your feelings..but a gemini will lie to u just to trick u and play with your head...alot of capricorns lie....leos lie alot...aries lie alot... alot of signs are capable of being extreme liars but so what everyone does it lol u cant just take it out on cancers =)

Im a cancer and my boyfriend is a cancer ... he told me he loved me after a few weeks (i am lovable but come on lol) He is needy, jealous and cried all the time... needless to say we broke up.

I agree. Thought I had the perfect relationship...finally. Turned out he was running around while I was at work with someone he met at his son's school. Lies, on top of lies. He had me convinced it was over, then low and behold today it comes out that it's not. As far as I'm concerned they are a bunch of sorry people

Im with a cancer man that says he's faithful but he occasionally talks to other women for money. Now how is that being faithful.

Im with a cancer man that says he's faithful but he occasionally talks to other women for money. Now how is that being faithful.

Im a scorpio girl.. I know this cancer man who fits the cancer description perfectly... He's a musician, easy on the eyes, has a childish but sophisticated sense of humor, emotional, loves nature, moody,.. now reading this made me think cuz sometimes it does seem he says what i wanna hear... he can be sinical and revengeful, and pessimistic...which I hate!!! But no one is perfect...then again

lol....this is so funny. I have been dating a cancer man for a few months now and the one thing I am certain about is that he lies to everybody (including me).

they behave very sweetly with others but they are sometimes manupalative. they get work done from others and and enjoy comfort life themselves and this is the truth.

Im Capricorn girl, date a cancer almost 2years..i love him so much even cried in front him everytime we try to break up. He is my 1st love and so do him he said. We already broke up and agree to be friend since few months ago, but he still try to win me back by showing his care and told that how important im to him. I caught a foreigner guy sending love mail to him through his facebook and even sent his "blue" pictures through his mail. Im very scared and confussed, so tried to find answer from my cancer guy, but he deny it confidently with good reason. I trusted him until yesterday, he wrongly sent me a sms, saying that he love me too and can't wait to suack my cock! Until now he didn't answer my phone and try to run away..he ruin my love life..im truma with guy now..really really truma..

i have had a cancer man who was very sneaky...it took me a while to know he was cheating on me with 2 other girls. those two were completely oblivious to it until i told them. i'm not speaking for all cancer men.

I think this is close to being accurate. I know many cancers...ive dated a cancer...and they are good at lying and humilating others.

I'm a Cancerian Man and when i love hard i love but i can be a bit of manipulator for the simple fact that i am a gentlemen so i don't like physical confrontations! i enjoy lots of women and they all enjoy me!

I'm a cancer girl!!This is somewhat true, I cheat n lie jus to protect myself. I can b vain at times... I mean u gotta love yourself!.. I'll tell u wat u wanna hear cuz u cnt deal with wat I really wanna say, I will control a guy if I feel that he is weaker than me but I'm really not that bad of a person

Ok im 20 and a cancer male..
Yeah i could be moody sometimes.. But im not like a typical cancer.. Im funny i love to joke around and have fun.. Now if u hurt me and u give me a attitude.. BEST BELIEVE I AINT STAYING SHUT.. u give me respect i give u respect.. Ur rude to me then im rude to u..
But im caring and lovable i love to be around friends and comfort them Im a good listener and alot of my friends confide in me.. Im not a liar, IM BEYOND HONEST.. i tell u how it is i dont go around the bush.. Now if u think cancer man will burn u.. Ha!! TRY SCORPIO they the worst most fake AND MEAN.. and conceited sign after Gemini!!!

Most of these comments sounds superficial. And more than half or you lie, so don't pretend you don't. I am a cancer of 17 years, and I admit, I USED to lie when I was younger. But who hasn't? Now that I'm older, I've realized that lying actually hurts more than helps. So I can confidently say that I am an honest person, I value truth more than anything.

And yes, regarding this post, I admit that we are a little self-loathing due to our pessimistic nature. And almost naturally introverted. I prefer these types anyway, it's better than narcissistic assholes with an ungodly amount of ego. You know who I'm talking about. These types are fun to insult.

On the other hand, most people view cancers as being 'weak' because we have emotions. Isn't rage, hate, malice...etc emotions as well? And be grateful that us cancers are naturally caring, because if you hurt us badly enough, we won't care about you. Even if we KNOW that you a sick/dying/poor. (Although we usually care and tend for those people when were treated fairly. Lol)

I'm finished with my rambling rant. Thank you.

I am Cancerian man and I do not like being accused of something that I have not done especially from someone who I truely love and care for. I find when someone continually doubts my intention and say things that are not true about me I get hurt very easily. What happens then is I become ruthless and revengeful with resentment. I go ahead and do exactly what I am being accused of (eg having an affair). Even though I feel bad about it afterwards but then I convince myself why am I feeling sad and regretful when the person whom I love the most already has accepted me as unfaithful when I never was in the first place.

I realised very early in my life that most of my decision making ability was very much influenced by my "feelings" at the time. Despite knowingly that I need to exercise good judgement and clear rational thinking, I generally swayed to emotionally driven decisions (choices). This is something I strongly disapprove of myself but I find I am very much caught in the cycle of my mood swings which make it really hard for me to break free from.

When I entrust someone by sharing things with them that are of a very personal nature, I expect them to maintain my trust and confidence at all times by respecting the sensitivity of that matter. The last thing I want is someone acting disrecpectfully and without care.

I have high expectation of the woman I am with and I will do anything necessary to maintain the relationship and keep her happy. Like everyone else, I also have my high and low points in personality, characteristics and nature. In simple sense, I expect my partner and I to complement each other for our strengths and weaknesses (practical things where I have shortcomings, she should have the ability to fulfil and where she lacks, I should have the ability to fulfil) and seek help where both of us have shortcomings in the same area(s).

I hope the above will make sense to you. Let me know if you need me to expand on anything.

A cancerian is a two edges sword. either it's hell or it's heaven. that's what we all about.
in love or a relationship. you must know how his/her relationship is going before.

i'm a cancerian man, and used to dated a cancerian woman, she is my first love, while i'm her 28th lover, i knew if it will not going well, but still "my heart always win over my head". this is too what cancerian all about. i keep said that i'll be her last, but she is too damn stubborn, i don't get the affection that i need. for me it's now or never, and for her she will never forget her ex, i don't know which one.

but now i'm just like her, eventhough i still love her, but i hated her so much, and i want to have new relationship as quick as possible, but i think again. if i do this, then i have no diffrent than she is. so i swore never love again, in my whole life. this is how i ended my heart win over my head.

coz it's all about me gettin' hurt or others. and i won't hurt others, but don't worry, some people just do with their way, i don't even know if the way i took is right, coz many of my friends keep telling me that i was wrong.

but then again, there are something in this life won't be denied, that thing called destiny. even you took swore or promises your path of life can change by destiny.

i hope someday she will realize that i always wait for her.
may my experience help you all with cancerian, GBU.

I am a cancer male and I don't think I lie anymore than long term ex girlfriends I've been with (Virgo and Sagittarius) I may have told the odd white lie but otherwise I think I'm very loving and even too honest when it comes to my own feelings. I used to be very placid until I was hurt but, my first was violent and the second a cocaine user. Even though both of them hurt me continually I remained faithful. I may have lashed out but I stayed because I was too sensitive to their feelings. The longer I've stayed the more frequent and severe my outbursts have been. Both relationships have been pushed to the limit and finished with BIG anger on both parts

i dated a cancer and i am a aquarius which says it's the worst relationship.... true u cant even joke around they like being the bully they cant take it .. they are never quite sure of themselves so inscure .

I am a Cancer and I have never seen so much Cancer bashing in my whole life. Usually, I read about how sensitive and caring we are. That said - I recently started my first personal 'friendship' with a male Cancer... and after talking to him & reflecting on myself, have the following insight for you who are considering venturing into Cancer territory:

- Cancers feel a large obligation to family. This doesn't mean that they will be faithful - it mostly pertains to their children.

- No matter how much a Cancer has going for them, they're insecure. This insecurity will be displayed as moodyness and is hard to 'cure.' Because it is so hard to 'cure' they can seek outside 'relationships'... this is how they can venture outside a relationship even though they hold family close. Family = CHILDREN... not necessarily YOU.

- This insecurity can basically be described as an eternal void that many 'alpha personalities' have ... one where they're never truly content. never really satisfied. Can you live with someone who is ALWAYS trying to be/do better? A lot of people can't

- we lie. not out of malicious intent, but because of our insecurities, we don't control our impulses. Then we do behaviors that can hurt you. But, on the other hand, we GENUINELY care about you. So, we lie to keep from hurting you more.

- we do have a sense of humor, are funny, easygoing and all the good things you like about people... we just don't show it openly. And, though there are a few of us that are optimists - we have a firm understanding of reality - which can be a real downer.

- my best friend is a virgo. best friend of YEARS. it is true we get along with virgos.

- my husband is a Scorpio. We get along great but are too intense as lovers. He needs to be loved constantly. I don't feel comfortable telling him I love him all the time. It makes him insecure. I'm concerned with physical appearance. he's concerned with unconditional love. I am too, but that doesn't mean I need to be thisclose to him - I'm comfortable with just knowing he's around. I need my space.

- On the plus side: I don't talk trash/gossip about people.

- I hold grudges forever and find it hard to truly forgive anyone who has betrayed my trust. Period.

- I don't approve of unfaithful behavior, but will partake (but that is basically the case for most people). I'm a very big fan of the traditional roles of man and woman (and this took a lot of growing up to realize because I'm a very independent female).

- I have a very harsh way of saying things that can hurt feelings. its not really like being a critical a$$hole, its more like - being very direct.
- I can imagine being in a relationship with cancer would be *VERY* hard for someone who is not VERY similar in personality. Cancers are very complicated.

If I meet a Cancerian man, I will run away as fast as I can. Wow! They are frightening!

I am Sag girl and i love my Cancer guy so much, i broke up with him coz my mom received many calls from school mates about me and him and stuff we never did...and my family caused me alot of problems and i didn't want him to get involved and,i called him one day & told him we could be friends..i didn't told him what was the reason coz i know he blames himself whenever i faced problems...he didn't call'd me bc & it was really hard to let him go..i know i hurt him...he is the sweetest, kind and loving but one problem, he listens & believes what others say.It's been 7 years and there's no guy could replace him...he is in my friends list on FB now but i guess it's too late, i'm scared to tell him how i feel for him...i just don't know....i want to let it out coz i don't want to have this emotional & depression...but i think there's no need to say.

ok imma cancer and some of what your saying is true but not all it may appear that we are not dominate but we really are some times our nice nature can be mistaken for weekness then we turn into this monster that only thinks about them selves because we get screwed over in the long run. thats why we start thinking selfish but matture and wise people of this sign begins to learn how to get what they want from people and success in life

.im a female cancer and ii care about
nobody but myself and fam[ily]..i've
cheated but people change and i
changed !!

i'm an aries. my ex cancer man enjoyed humiliating another person. he was very moody, usually for no reason. he never shared and didn't believe in fairness like i do. one thing: he makes women, not woman, feel loved. he's very protective and possessive. i broke up with him last year and he got a new girlfriend, his "fiancee." they seem like a sweet couple, like i used to be. from time to time, i wonder if he's still getting because some of my friends and their friends have been with the same guy. i'm glad to be rid of him. i am not judging all cancer men out there. -my experience

OMG!! In reference to the comment on March 22nd 2010.. Same thing happened to me... I met a guy who happens to also be a Cancer... thought I met my soul mate everything was going great then all of a sudden a flip of the switch and he stopped talking to me.. didn't tell me why or anything just stopped all communication out of nowhere.. it has been a little over a week.. needless to say I am a little crushed.. I would have liked to know at least why..another girl? was I not attractive enough? are you just that busy? regardless if he thought it would hurt my feelings it's better than wondering all the time... But then again maybe it is best that way... I wonder if he thinks of me or wants to talk to me but just doesn't.. in any case it is strange and I would be lying if I said it didn't hurt...But whatever, I am not gonna call or text because if he wanted to talk to me he would have like he did before.. I guess he just lost interest... I am happy to see I was not the only one... Thanks for leaving your message...it made me feel not soo alone.....

I am a Cancer Woman and im Truely a good hearted person. I hate when people lie to me especially if the person that lies to me is the one i love. Its hard for me to forget things and forgive people. I trust very few people and my heart has been fuck over many times by trustin and forgivin people. All i want is just someone real with me. I wouldnt care if it was bad for me to know i just personally rather hear them tell me straight up right then and there, then me finding out months or years later from someone else that everything i thought and did was a lie because of them. </3

Well, well well i met a cancer man, very shy and timid, very loving and kind. he swept me off my feet. We began our lives together, started a family, we created a home. After 2 years, he lied, he cheated, he was mentally abusive and controlling, insecure, moody, and turned into the coldest human being i ever knew, not only to his 2 year old son but to me as well.
good luck!!!!!

see there's that thing that everyone's hating on cancer men. what about your signs, huh? I bet their not so special like ours.

cancer men appear to be scared of fights with others, unless he is provoked to a certain limit. then he would come out of his fear and fight up with maximum effort to kick ass off of his opponent. so its a warning that not to pre judge a cancer with his fear for fight. he is really a good fighter. beware.

cancer men might lie, but he does that only by making sure that he is not hurting others and its only for self defense mainly.

People over here....especially women, let me tell you one thing....when he doesnt pick up your calls, or ignores you...it means he is not into you that much....so the job of MOST SENSIBLE WOMEN is to leave those kind of guys....i guess here it is the fault of women....cancerians feel emotions very quickly, they know your intentions and how you actually feel about them...so never play with cancerians otherwise they will burn you....cancerians connect greatly with only few people....its a weird thing, but its true.....thats why they use many women as booty calls....they dont feel the connection.....so its your duty ,,,,,you women to leave them!!!dont stretch the relationship when you know that he only uses you!!
I am a cancer female, iam 22 and still didnt fall in true love....initially i like a guy , i start liking him alot, but when i feel his intentions or that he is a liar or arrogant.....i start hating him....the attraction wears out and i leave him....I never give false hopes to any guy, i always start as friends.....but there are so many fucking guys who will lie that they love you , just to have sex with you!!hate those guys !!!!!We cancerians feel that......thats why we are only truly connected with our heart with few people.....
A piece of advice to all the women who are cancer men haters-----Leave them if there is no heart connection. If there is a heart connection you will know, cos he will treat you like a princess!

There's always 3sides to every story, his side ~ her side & the truth.. Now ask yourself what was it was, you may have done to cultivate such a vindictive nature towards yourself. Cancers are only reflectors. Unconsciously Very sensitive? I think that should be expected from a True Moon child. I mean every one has thier downfalls, the same that those downfalls may be anothers deep desire. From now on ask a mans zodiac, before you become interested, once he says he's a cancer keeping moving. Would that help you sleep @night. By the way nice character mite I add. You can only hate or love, what you understand, which is why Taurus makes a good match(security), then again, know the position of the relationship. In the quad~ there is aries , cancer, libra & capri. These four find it extremely hard to understand each other. Physically, emotionally, & mentally. But unconsciously they speak a very fine language that only inner peace can rectify. Smh stop being so hatefull guys don't. You know we can't help but reflect& mirror your own true self.lmbo :P

Firts off.. 9 out of the 10 comments here are bs..
one half doesnt know, the other half is damaged by a cancer
and now holds a grudge against them..

so their opinion are probably based on past emotions instead of truth..

when u read all the negative responses u automaticly are getting a picture of what a cancer is capable of doing and what is going to happen with you when u ^%$# with a cancer..

Well that's the effect..

they should have a warning sign with CAUTION on their back..
because they will scar you..

FOR ALL THE LADIES..

u are right, most of u entered heaven and walked towards hell with the cancer male hand in hand..

this is because of lack of communication,
did u ever experience the absence of sex when things were going bad..?

a taurus can feel when a cancer is upset
and when the taurus recognizes this
he or she can ease that feeling..

this can not be done if ure both a cancer..

because not one of the two can make the effort

if one cancer is in his shell and the other pulls him out than at the same time the one who is pulling pulls him self in.. this in uninevidable

this push and pull game will become exhausting and draining..

i see all these comments about lying..
now i do believe this because i know about 11 cancer..
but it isnt necesserily true..

most of the people i know lie..

when a cancer lies i can think of three reasons why..

1. he doesn't want to hurt you
2. he doesn't wanne get exposed
3. he's cheating..

arnt those always the reasons? :P

with honest cancers it will be the first 2..

cancers have a problem with rejection 'in the deepest meaning of the word'
wich makes them shy..

they also have major issue's with makin people emotionally dependent..
now this happens but not consciously..

not until they start askin themselfs why everybody always comes to them when it comes down to advice..

this is a 2 way thing.. cancer do it, but we also let it happen..
this is easy to prevent. be independent..

i once red cancer is The most complex zodiac sign..

cancer is as strong as he is weak..

he is his own worst enemy...

For all you woman who engaged with a cancer..

i apologize

right here right now.. for all us cancer..

im a 24 year old dutch cancer... born by daylight, so more emotionaly restless..

i recognize almost everything i read. especially from the woman..

The cancer is a dark sign ladies, because it's constalation is so far away..
this doesnt mean cancer is evil and worthless..

cancer is worth his weight in gold..

and a cancer is godly loyal..

Cancer generates (not all types of cancer) slow
and when a cancer breaks through
all off the suddon it's everywhere
and your whole life is infected..

this go's 2 ways.. heaven like and hell like..

but what kinda scared person are you if u are not willing to risc your heart by experiencing life to the fullest..

how do u think a cancer is handlin all this..?

a cancer feels what u think before u said it..
that makes them GREAT partners.. and lovers..
BUT Dangerous enemies..

they feel you.. and when i say feel you..
i mean really feel you..

when a cancer turns from bad to worse
it is because he or she ignores from wich he or she came..

your not doing what u are supposed to do..



i had a cancer girlfriend and im a cancer to..

i still talk to her, and after 6 years.. she finally recieved the insight she needed to understand me..

and now she admire's me..
and everytime we talk she reminding me of how good things were
and how nice i was and how wise i am and all the things she learned from me and how she wish she could turn back time..

now she was my first, but that time i was just a number..

i was younger than and i already knew thing werent going to work out..
how did i know it? i felt it.. i sensed doubt in her
but i stayed as good as i am and we talked and broke up..

but the whole staying good part (looking back now) was bad to..




u ladies have too understand that when a cancer engages into a relationship..
(im not talkin about a guy who already had half the city)
he go's for it.. he doesnt only puts his heart in it.. but also his soul..
he refuses to be a number...

so

what would u rather have?

memmories about a jerk
or the lost love memmorie about the love of your life that u wasted away...

that's what i'm sayin..



unfortunatly for her, i already knew what love was 6 years ago..

it's difficult for a cancer to wait for someone who understands them..

a cancer isnt difficult, a cancer is simplicity..
but its so simpel that it is difficult..

i know bad persons and good persons..
good cancers and bad cancers..

cancers need to feel value trust and acceptation..

and if a cancer thinks thing arnt worth the effort.
than you done did it..

to betray a cancer, is to scar his soul..
to on purpose or out of selfish reason hurt a cancer
is to scar his soul..

a cancer doesnt forget.. but is willing to forgive if he sees change and regret..

a good cancer will never hurt you..

contact me at deadly_alliance_5@hotmail.com

all the bad thing are true, but don't apply to every cancer..

when a cancer shine's, he is the light..

I love a cancer guy. i think so he loves me too but thts just my opinion. i am a virgo woman and i dont know how to tell him that i love him........ as i am quite at times scared by his changing moods, and the worst thing is that he tells something else to his colleauges and something else to me.................... i wanna know,...... i wanna say.......... bt i am scared that if i lose him................. i really do feel for this guy an d i am confused.............HELP ME

Im a cancer female and married to a cancer man. We have been together for 15 years. He is all the things this sign says and so am I. Cancer men ONLY cheat if they are on the rebound after being treated horribly by some loser. You may not know this because its been a year or so since that loser has been around. It takes a long time to get back on your feet after being hurt and in this period cancer ppl can be downright ruthless. My father and my husband are both cancers, and so am I. Cancers can have alot of these personality traits listed, you know being selfish, white lies, needy and moody,. but that usually gets better with age and maturity. I have a feeling many of the ppl here talking about cancers have been involved with young cancers who have been hurt or on the rebound. They dont fall inlove easily, even if they spend time with you or sleep with you. My advice is to not put up with their crap, set boundaries and be a bit understanding and forgiving. Dont cheat....the relationship is over once the trust is gone. We are great lovers and very funny, that is why ppl love us or copy us all the time. Me and my cancer man are soulmates and we say that everyday...it takes a cancer to know a cancer. If you are an Aries, Leo, Sag....give it up, we could never fall for you whole heartedly, your way too different and loud for us even if we like you, we wont marry you or stay married to you. We are discreet, quiet people, not liars.

i like them most of the time
but way to emotional
and i never wanna see one mad again

cancerian men are astute,but they do not"bully" really but use emotional manipulation or indifference to make a point.they can not bully or physically abuse.
they can take painfully long time to propose because for years they'll be sizing a girl up as his wife,whom he can expose his vulnerabilities to.yes,the cancerian men who sleep with whores are still happy because sleeping around is just not their thing.But then,how many women do have the integrety,sexual restraint and patience to wait so long as that man?

True, Cancer Men will tell you anything you want to hear. But they also mean everything they say, as long as they are not angry at that moment. When we are angry, we mean nothing that we say. However, be aware that he is very protective with the ones he loves... especially with his loved one. It is not a good idea to turn Cancer Men into your enemies or become theirs...

As for me, when I get angry, I hold myself from saying things I don't mean... I agree I am moody and all these things, but that doesn't mean I am a liar and manipulator. But everyone has their own opinion, right?

I'm a CaNceR giRL- and I do not lie/or I do but it is to NOT hurt the persons feelings; but sometimes when I tell the truth .....................! I'm like "hey, uhm please wear another shirt or clean the inside of your car ( when I really love you as a friend ); and I'll even help you clean your car as a a nice sign, so you will not feel humiliated. I try to 'catch' you when I think you're falling. What do you like better? But if I am not happy with your e.g.shirt, but I see ur soooooo happy with it ................yeah I'll lie to you and say it's ok :) CANCERS CATCH YOU WHEN YOU 'FALL'.

Lol funny how theres soo much negative thoughts of cancee man! Well im a aquarious female n im dating a cancer man n lets juz say I did alot of research on him so I know exaclty how he isn im pretty sure thats why till this day we havnt got in no arguments nor bump heads were soo in love n its simply kuz I know exactly wa he wants n how to treat him n No he aint a lier I knw to much about him to even think 2even think his lieing n I trust him as for da way he is wit me his a gentleman,careing makes sure im happy n he always texts me n calls n if I dnt txt bk quik he will cll me mad which I think is cute n shows dat he does live me ;) his a jealous type, sometines moody n manipulative but I could hang wit that kuz I trulyam in love wit him n he even told me he wants ti marry me n he has no eyes for no other female but me n he has been trying to get me pregnant which obviously he aint gona do unless he truly wants tobe wit me well point is if u can ynderstand a cancer man and how he wants tobe treated n know exaclty wa todo to keep him happy then ur most likely to have a keeper juz dnt lie,or try tobe rude n mean kuz u will loose him keep it sexy, n show him affection n love n spoil him tell him everyday u love him n how sexy he is n kiss him n if u cook for him den u got him on the palm of ur hand n dats wa I did I cooked his favorite meal n man did he look happppy lol ahhhhh im juz soo in love wit my cancer man!! all diz negative talk yall have agaisnt cancer man is simply kuz u didnt know the type of person he wus b4 u got involed wit 1 but if yall would of done yall research yall would not had a problem n would of been happier lol well GOOOD LUCK TO ANY WHO R DATEING CANCER MAN N HAVE NO IDEA WA UR GETTING INTO!! AQUARIOUS & CANCER ;)

well im an aries and im in a relationship with an cancer, they are honest,caring,kind,funny,loving,and they care about other and when they get mad omg.well i dont think their lies cuz he tells me everything hes honest to me.he hates lies and he shares his feels to me.hes always so kind to me.he always tells me he loves me and does anything for me and hes always trying to make me happy and laugh and people say that aries and cancer are not a good match there wrong .we may have are ups and downs but we know have to deal with it together.we know have to take it together. hes always by my side in the bads and goods. thats good so their not has bad as u guys think.get to know cancers better and u well see their not as bad.

im a cancer male and i have the look that if any girl or guy were to see me and dont know me would automatically assume ima player and get alot of girls..but i dont...im really shy and i always turn down an easy lay...i dont know what kkind of cancers you people are meeting to say we are liars and manipulaters is way off...let me bring most of you back to reality..you cant judge sum1 just by their fucking horoscope..!! its so dumb...eveery1 is different and every1 is unique in their own way....ima cancer male and i do not lie or manipulate women..although i am emotional and sensitive....peace out

Cancer males ususally feel insecure, because Cancer is the "ultra-feminine" sign, so they put up a lot of defenses and act macho.

cancer men are big big liars, and will same what "they" think you want to hear. a lie is a lie, is a lie. piss me off.

Cancer are just emotional people. They dont know what is right or wrong when they are in love. Its a very confusing emotion for them. Until, they believe this feels like a real relationship, only then you will see a true love at your feet.

After reading above article,i can say,cancers are the most lairs and selfish peeps on the world.
They can do what they feel good for themselves .Not asking for others.

Wow... Cancers males are a delight!!!! Compared to a BI-POLAR GEMINI!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!